Defend child porn?
No, question it, would be more precise, debate the taboo and understand why it is so important without all the emotional BS that surrounds it.

Further, a child is a person a miniature person, it has its own wants and dreams it has its own mental capacities and it is learning at a pace that most adults could never keep up with, at some point they will learn about it all, why it is that you believe that child could not handle their sexuality from an early age, what is the basis of that assertion?

Is there any scientific study done about it?
Probably not.

Is there any anecdotal references that could be used for guidance on the issue?

From my own experiences only, a boy having sex with an adult girl doesn’t get humiliated, he probably is proud of doing it, a girl on the other hand is stigmatized in social circles causing far greater psychological damage than any sexual act could have done it, while moronic teens will abuse sexually the young kids some times it doesn’t matter in which circle they are in.

Have you ever see a boy crying or being emotionally damage by having had sex with a woman? It happens when that woman is his mother or something like that but all in all I never saw a boy with deep psychological scars for having sex with an older woman not once, they all brag about how manly that was and blah blah blah even at an early age like 5 or 6, girls on the other hand due in part to current social views are the most traumatized by any sexual interaction of any kind even as adults, do that seem healthy to you?

On the other hand boys can be traumatized by mostly homosexual advances, I am not condemning homosexuality, but I am saying that homosexuality is the one factor that creates deep psychological scars in male children, to the point that some become hyper aggressive to compensate for what they perceive as a bad thing.

As for the illusion that parenting is taking the choices for your own child, well that is most probably why we have so many dysfunctional people inside society today.

You don’t make the choices for anybody, you guide those choices by creating experiences that will lead them to the same conclusions you did, not doing that opens them to be alone having to devise their own experiments without any type of supervision whatsoever, which in short is why people unconsciously say to each other every day to not be overbearing in the control part of parenting. Children may not have the experience this is why it is important to understand what happens, so people can find the optimal way to deal with those situations.

Now what children really lack is power, they have no power to defend against people who hold some sort of authority over them, they have no physical power to push back against other that are stronger and more experienced than they are, if you said that I would agree, not that BS about children lacking the capability to make decisions.

Most sexual abuse happens by someone close to the children, the abusers are their own family members in the majority of cases of sexual abuse, what you think that means?

Means people should be protecting children from parents and family members, you think laws targeting family and parents would pass? I doubt instead people create outside proxies to blame don’t they?

Do that help children being sexually molested right now?

Of course not but that is what we got today, a bogeyman that is a proxy to the real problem that doesn’t address the base causes of abuse, but are used to push other interests.